We discussed the pitfalls of open relationships — turns out, women often think they can date porn stars without getting jealous, and are often wrong. But he also wasn’t Anti-porn activists try to tell us that porn destroys men’s attitudes about women, that it makes them misogynist, that porn leads them to expect us to be fake and perfect — but if that were true, you’d think a porn performer would be an a**hole about unshaven legs, right?(Similarly, a lot more men think they want open relationships than actually do.) Another reason I often enjoy talking with sex workers is that we experience sexual stigma similarly. Plus, I didn’t get any crap at all from PS about how women are ruining the economy by voting.But we hadn’t talked much until I ran into him at the aforementioned bar, attending a fundraiser for sex workers’ rights.
I’m going to call him PS for short, to keep things simple.
I’ve seen PS around Chicago before; a couple years back, we ended up at the same karaoke event until 6 a.m.
I’m a fan of explicit sexual communication, so I appreciated his honesty, and I hypothesized that he might be fun in bed, so I was willing to give it a try. Yet notwithstanding the inevitable misanthropic tinge to my day, I was in a good mood when I texted PS. At the very least, I could be sure that kissing wasn’t too emotional for him.
Or at least, I was willing to try it until he pulled back from making out with me and said: “Kissing is too emotional.” Really? As I stepped into PS’s apartment for dinner, I found: “Striking,” I said. ” “You know, I had guys doing construction here at one point, and they asked if they could meet my girlfriend,” he said.
And you never know how they’re going to react in the long term.” “Right!
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As we waited, I asked how girls usually react when and if they find out he’s a porn performer. “Sometimes girls are appalled by it, and sometimes they’re fascinated by it,” he said.
“The problem is, even when they’re fascinated by it, they’re not necessarily cool with it.
Thursday night, I’d had a dinner that, okay, wasn’t an explicit date but was a catch-up session with tentative flirting.