Those supposed requirements usually include proof of financial independence and requirement to pay off all loans that "she" has in her name.
And if you concluded that, because of those observations, you weren’t inclined to try online dating again, you’d have plenty of evidence to support yourself. So let’s keep on going with your other misconceptions about online dating: You dated online for 3 months and didn’t find love? You’ve been in love 3 times in 40 years – why would you think you should it in 90 days on JDate? It’s not because you have no integrity or are a congenital liar.
It means you have a deep-seated bias against online dating, so that anything I say which contradicts you is just going to irk you more. Anything to get you outside your comfort zone, to get you to see the world through a different, more empowering lens.
But all the dating advice in the world is useless if you’re not actually dating regularly!
If you’ve resisted online dating because of your preconceived notions about how it is, I assure you, it’s because you’ve never tried it my way.
"She" will get robbed or attacked, may become injured or sick, may suddenly get arrested, or her apartment may get flooded or burned.
The scam will go on for as long as the guy is willing to continue sending money to help his "Russian princess" to get through her never-ending travel misadventure.
If the guy is determined to make her supposed trip happen regardless of the expenses, he sends the money again and again.
In the money keep coming, the "lady" will continue to experience difficulties.
I’m really open to everything you say, Evan, but I never meet any good men! It’s certainly frustrating to want to prioritize your love life, but not have the opportunity to meet any new men on a day-to-day basis. The reason you’re single is simply that you haven’t met the right guy – and yet you have no idea where he’s coming along. Before you tune out or run away screaming, hear me out. In fact, any evidence that I provide that contradicts you is only going to make you believe in your original premise more. Yes, you’re hardwired to be stubborn and, as such, you can easily fall victim to “the confirmation bias”, which seeks out information which only reaffirms what you already believe (biting my tongue on the obvious Fox News joke…) So, if you have dated online and discovered the following: • Men sometimes lie. You think that 90% of men online are “wrong” for you. But so are 90% of men in bars, on buses, or in Starbucks.