And then you can be the one to say ‘sayonara’ when someone better catches your eye.Are you ready to find true love, but afraid you'll make another painful mistake?He understands male personality types and offers sound advice on how to identify a good man with whom a relationship is worth pursuing, and also how to tell if a man has a personality flaw that you should walk away from fast! Nowinski includes practical tests you can use to quickly spot characteristics in a man that have the potential to doom a relationship - so you can stop wasting time on yet another Mr.
Forget about “saving” him You know how you always secretly hope that you’ll be the one to make that leopard change his spots? It can be hard to hear that the guy you’ve fallen for is a loser, but sometimes it’s what you really need.
And before you get defensive (usually the reason that friends are afraid to say what they really think), press rewind: have they been right about someone before? Too-Right” We sometimes automatically assume that good guys = boring (I think we’ve all seen a few too many rom coms, no? But just because a man has a decent job, shows up on time, and tells you how great you are doesn’t mean he can’t also be hilarious and fun (and know his way around the bedroom, to boot).
If all else fails, think in his terms When you just can’t stay away from a bad boy, never lose sight of the fact that you’re not in it for emotional intimacy or long-term stability.
As long as you don’t expect anything more than fun sex, you should be fine.
It’s sad but true – too many smart, sexy women have a thing for bad boys that they just can’t shake.
But the fact is, what may seem attractive in the short run usually just leads to long-term heartache.Insecurity, the narcissist, the beach boy, the addict, the control freak and the predator.And if you find yourself in a relationship with one, you might have to make a decision.They can begin a new and healthy relationship armed with the right information to help them be more selective about the type of men they invite out for a second date.Joseph Nowinski is a psychologist at the University of Connecticut Health Center.The Smart Woman's Guide to Breaking the Pattern and Finding the Love of Your Life is written by a psychologist who has spent years in cli Are you ready to find true love, but afraid you'll make another painful mistake?