Before you go out and start dating younger men, decide what you are looking for in a relationship.Are you looking for something casual and fun or something deeper with commitment.They are liable to change their mind from one day to the next as they deal with discovering who they are as a person. The best way to deal with this spontaneity is to go with the flow. Plus, young men tend to develop slower than women their age.
We are seeing more and more of an older woman dating a younger man.
This dating style has even coined the term ‘cougar’ which refers to an attractive older woman seeking younger men. Many times the woman just wants to feel younger and enjoys the energy and spontaneity of a younger man.
You want to display yourself in the best possible way and you don’t have to look like a cover model in order to do that.
Young men tend to be more energetic, more spontaneous than older men. They are quite capable of waking up one morning and deciding to drive down to the coast and still be back to hit the clubs that same night. Some people tend to be more mature than others of their age but usually, young people just haven’t lived long enough to develop that level.
They don’t have enough experience to be confident about themselves and don’t know what they want or how they should act sexually.
They can flip-flop between being too aggressive to being too passive. You should have enough experience to be confident about yourself. Don’t be hesitant about being in charge and making the first move.
Many older women that date younger men do so to have fun. Usually this arrangement works fine for the guy who is often just looking to try out an experienced woman.
However, all too often you can end up falling for the guy that you are seeing, especially if he has everything that you are looking for in a man.
There has always been the social dating arrangement of an older man dating a younger woman.
But in the recent years, the opposite has become more popular (probably thanks in large to the internet).
This doesn’t mean that you go out and spend a couple of thousand dollars on plastic surgery to look younger.