Is this because most people picture their future from an early age and mixing it up doesn’t quite sit right?
I appreciate your frustration and thank you for your letter, but you’re completely focused on things you can’t change (white men!
) instead of the only thing you CAN change (your perceptions, actions and reactions.) a black man (even though his bits are no different than mine).
There’s Charles Boyer and Maurice Chevalier if you’re a fan of old films. And having had long distance relationships, French-American style – I’ll just say they were transcontinentally divine, and the friendships that remain, even more sublime.
And surely you recall the debonair Louis Jourdan alongside Leslie Caron in . Won’t you always encounter a bit of the good, the bad, and everything in between when you get down to the reality? I’ll bet you know exactly which (good and not-so-good) myths I mean.
So I realise that in this ever decreasing dating pool, my numbers are even smaller than most women as I don’t and won’t date within my race. So what to do – am I living in a dream world and need to maybe just get into my head that I’m meant to be single?
Thanks, from a rather frustrated and almost desperate Jae!
If I’m lucky, they’ll date me briefly, but it’s purely about the sex! I’m 36 and have slept with under 10.) I’m extremely fussy who I “put out” for.
I’m on two dating sites: e Harmony and Match Affinity – both USELESS.
If you were smart, you’d tell me one of these three things: 1. Therefore, any question like “How do I make Jae love me? ” (Note to other readers: this a good thing for you to contemplate, too, since humility and self-awareness are the keys to any long-term relationship.) From your email, I’ve learned a few things: You have a big ego. Do I even need to say anything else as to why you’re still single? If you want to find love, just undo everything I restated above.
They’re better long-term relationship bets than the white men who are using you for exotic sex, don’t you think?
My sister gets men to commit but you wanna see the state of them – I have higher standards!