Some emails have come from women who have been “involved” with these men for months, sometimes even years. It doesn’t matter how good the sex he gets from you is either. You see all these words and feelings he describes to you are just as much fantasy to him as they are to you. I’m sorry if that sounds harsh, but someone needs to make you women see what’s really going on in this situation.
He’s lost the romance and spark he had at the beginning of his marriage, and you’re giving it to him. When a man is serious about a woman, he can’t stand being away from her. I feel for you, and I want you to find an amazing man of your own, not for you to take another woman’s, or for a man to treat you like a piece of meat.
Trouble is this amazing new man already has a woman at home. Every couple of days I get an email from another woman telling me they’re dating a married man, or a man who has a long-term girlfriend, but it’s OK because, “He’s going to leave her.” Here is your official David Wygant slap in the face…
The cold hard reality to all this, is this man will NEVER be yours completely.
He spends time with you, and then goes home to play Daddy. It seems so obvious, yet every couple of days, there’s an email from a woman telling me how a married guy is playing them.
It’s always the same promises, and these women are deep into this thing. It’s just a fact, and there’s nothing you can do about it. If he was truly in love with you, he’d be planning his escape to you as we speak.
He has a wife, he has children, and he has commitments.
All that’s happening is he’s not getting what he needs at home, so you’re giving it to him instead. He has the best of both worlds, and he knows full well he’s playing you.
First ladies, he is married and married is married until a final divorce is decreed by the courts.
No matter how mean he tells you his wife is, how much he says she doesn't understand him, how much more he loves you compared to her, he is still in a legally binding contract with another woman who he most likely swore to be faithful to until death do they part.
If he has filed, you can ask to see a copy of the front page of the filing with the official stamp and also check with the court before you decide to see him at all. Step 3 -- If he hasn't filed for divorce I do not recommend spending any time with him at all.