Back in high school, I was a cute girl – nothing special, but attractive.
And I’m an introvert, and was pretty shy back then.
I.) can struggle with insecurity just like everyone else.
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Imagine you’re a guy checking out some good-looking women at a party – who’s going to be the easiest to approach: the talkative, smiling extrovert or the quiet, serious-faced introvert?
Introverted Attractive = Unapproachable So let’s add another dimension to this: the quiet, introverted person is also physically attractive. Instead of being the shy chick you might have sympathy for, she suddenly turns into the hot chick who won’t give you the time of day because she thinks she’s too good for you, right?
Recently, my childhood buddy Brent told me that his friends thought I was “stuck up” in high school.
I swear I was not the least bit stuck up, but that’s the impression I gave!
I’ve seen very handsome but standoffish guys turn into sweet, kind gentlemen once I broke the ice by talking to them.
I’ve seen introverts score more phone numbers and dates once they donned a smile and asked people about themselves. I.’s, each found the other attractive for four years but never spoke because each was intimidated by the other – one day she said hello to him, and the rest is history.
Because introverts are harder to get to know and harder to read, they may come off unfriendly.
Not surprisingly, dating can be more challenging for the introvert.
They had no perceived positive rewards for their efforts to court me, because I put out a tonne of masculine energy.
It was that I walked around, living my life from this place of thinking that my worth came from being career minded and successful. And yet – it pushed the better men away, because I didn’t need their direction.
Ok.’ From that day on, I noticed that whenever I told men this, this particular reaction was not uncommon at all. Heh, Finally, I feel some sort of power in my life – I’m doing a LAW degree and you can’t compare to that!