Like many seduction techniques, once you get the hang of it you really don’t need it any more.
Here’s a general summary of what I do on a first date in terms of touching her.
It rarely costs me more than and often costs me zero.
The vast majority of my lays these days on are the second date with a grand total of only three hours of face time, meet-to-lay, including both dates. I just give her a big smile and say hi and say something casual or funny. Move the conversation to relationship and sex talk. After touching her for a bit I’ll look down at her arm and say something like “hm”.
(I’ll post some specific recent examples on this blog shortly.) So within that framework, here’s a good picture of how I usually kino on a first date. Then we just sit down and start talking like we’re already old friends. That often starts yet another topic about touching or sex. Often I will say “flex your leg,” and when she does so I will touch her thigh.
It also helped me gain a little more confidence when actually getting to the point of removing clothing, though honestly that’s never been one of my sticking points.
Rather it was initial kino on the first date (or first meet) that confused me a little.
A lot of guys immediately hug women on a first date like this. Then I’ll make a comment about how muscular her leg is or isn’t. Unlike the other touching, I will usually not say anything about how I’m touching her hair while I’m doing it. Even if she suddenly stops talking when I do this, I’ll just prompt her to continue and keep touching.
If you haven’t already met her in real life, not only do I think that’s fake, I think it actually makes a lot of women shake a woman’s hand on a date, even if she offers. Sometimes it’s an honest statement, sometimes it’s a sarcastic one. This move is espeically easy if she’s been talking about how she goes to the gym or has just lost some weight or whatever. Important: most guys don’t know this, but women’s hair is a HUGE erogenous zone.Yes, there are exceptions to every rule, and I have had sex with women I did kiss on the first date when the sexual fires between us were just unbearable, but those were the unusual exceptions.99% of the time, I do not kiss on a first date, and I get laid A LOT.escalation on the first date but fucking them very quickly on the second date.Despite the fact I almost never go for the immediate first date lay ONS/SNL/SDL, this system works extremely well. If there is a table between us and they’re not in easy reach, I’ll literally say “Give me your hand for a minute.” They always comply at this point and I touch.You need to put this context of how I perform my lays.