With that in mind, try searching Meetup.com, Fet Life (see above), Facebook, and Loving More for resource, groups and connections.With only 27,000 (and counting) members on the site, Poly Match Maker still needs a larger user base to make it the go-to site for polyfolk around the world.Still, I've found a significantly higher-than-average number of poly folk on Fet Life, with a staggering number of local groups catering to those seeking multi-partnered relationships.
More » Okay, so I've deviated a bit here, offering up local resources instead of a specific dating site, per say.
The thing is, networking is key in this kind of search, and oftentimes you'll find meeting folks at real-world events the best way to communicate and connect with like-minded individuals.
A quick review found the company shares a database with Dating Factory, a huge partnership program with hundreds of other niche dating sites, and thus likely why the lack of truly poly matches.
As well, I wasn't able to find out costs to upgrade memberships (and thus contact others) or even see how many people use the site, so I'd pass here, too.
I did find quite a few poly people however while searching the site, and with it being 100% free (although covered in ads), I'd try it out if the other options on this list didn't pan out.
More » Although it came recommended by a reader, I have a hard time suggesting a dating site - any dating site - covered in ads that charges /month to gain full access to the site and contact other members.Yet still I regularly hear of friends, readers and clients connecting with others via Plenty of Fish for alternative partnerships, so obviously there's something else going on here that I've yet to figure out myself. Think I've missed a really important polyamorous dating site on this list?(If you have suggestions or some inside tips, please do share them in the comments! Feel free to share it with me on Twitter, Facebook or Pinterest.Of the poly singles, couples and groups that I know of, Ok Cupid is mentioned only second to Fet Life as their dating site of choice, and likely because it's one of the few free dating sites around that cater to this niche.More » The folks who run Fet Life, as well as many of its members, may cringe at joining the ranks of the dating sites listed here, as the alternative lifestyle social networking site makes a point of staying away from typical 'dating' searches and features found easily at all of the other websites on this list.Having said that, I know of a significant number of partnerships with this kind of dynamic, so it's more than just a fantasy you're chasing.