Merely having this attitude is going to seep out in a guy’s voice, body language, and vibe. So make your dates more fun, interesting, and exciting by making yourself more of a challenge for the woman. Man-up Men can take dating etiquette too far sometimes.In an attempt to treat the girl with “respect” they will bury any attraction and sexual interest they might have for her.
No woman wants to date a lap dog who agrees with everything she says.
Who she can walk all over and is just doing and saying whatever he thinks he needs to in order to be liked.
By trying to follow the right etiquette in hopes of coming across as a “gentleman” or “good guy”, guys can actually make the opposite impression.
Instead of coming across sweet and chivalrous, guys instead come across as weak and needy.
Instead, don’t be afraid to own what you think/feel (you can always do this in a playful way).
For example, instead of forcing yourself to laugh at an unfunny joke, playfully tease her about how lame it was (“What is this, open mic night? This is going to make the conversation more fun and real for both of you.
And it’s that intention – that desire to get something from the girl you are with, that is driving women away.
Fixing this problem starts by fixing your mindset and how you view dates.
Here are some of the more common mistakes guys make when trying to follow the standard dating etiquette for men, and what you should do instead.
Quit being such a nice guy In an attempt to show good dating etiquette men will go out of their way to be “nice”.
They’ll act super attentive and interested in the girl – not because they are genuinely curious about what she has to say – but because they want her to see how interested they are.