One of the biggest problems with nice guys is how annoyed they are with the world. But are you the one stepping aside so a girl can walk past you into the elevator, or are you the nice guy who lies on the ground and lets any girl walk all over you into the elevator because the floor’s dirty? They try too hard to make a good impression, and eventually end up losing all chances of impressing a girl they like because they make it so obvious that they’re trying really hard to please.
Almost all nice guys truly believe the world is unfair and all girls are liars because all girls say they like nice guys but end up walking all over these nice guys all the time. [Read: The real truth behind why girls never like you] Well, if you think you’re a nice guy who deserves the best girl in the world, here are a few things you need to ask yourself. [Read: The right way to text a girl and make her want you] Why are the other guys better than nice guys?
If your friends don’t respect you or listen to your opinions, it’s a sure sign that you’re a nice guy who’s walked over often, even by your friends. Nice guys are easily manipulated because they allow themselves to get manipulated even if they realize that they’re being manipulated.
Do you feel like nice guys always finish last no matter what they do or how hard they try? Instead, look inward and ask yourself if you’re the kind of nice guy that all girls choose to avoid. But they definitely don’t like a guy who goes overboard in trying to please them all the time, especially if they’re not in a relationship already.
Yes, there are different kinds of nice guys, and almost all of them aren’t really as good as they think they are. A regular guy may be nice to a girl, but a nice guy almost always ends up looking desperate and eager to please.
[Read: 10 types of guys girls find creepy] Of course, bad boys are extremely attractive.
But I don’t think any girl takes a bad boy seriously or gives him a thought beyond a one night stand. They’re both the two extremes of a spectrum that girls don’t care about. And a nice guy gives a girl a chance to have a man Friday to run her errands.
If you can’t fix your problem, why do you want another guy to do it for you?
[Read: How to get over a girl who doesn’t like you back] #9 They want miracles.
Nice guys constantly look to the future for a better life, be it by earning more money or getting a great job, but do nothing to change the present even though they know they need to change their behavior. No one takes a nice guy seriously because he never wants to offend anyone. No girl notices them until they make a move *as a friend* and then it’s all too late.
He’s too accommodating and everyone treats him like a pushover. They may want to lead, but never make the effort or take the initiative directly. [Read: Do girls ever like shy guys who don’t make a move? Nice guys are always intimidated by strong personalities.
#11 Nice guys get stressed by difficult situations. And they never really ask a girl out until it’s too late and then whine about how unfair the world is. If an alpha male likes a nice guy’s girl or tries to flirt with her, the nice guy wouldn’t have the internal strength to stand up against it.