Because, let’s face it, the odds are not in our favor, ladies.
As we get older the man-to-woman ratio moves more and more lopsided.
Such as, “A great evening for me is trying out the newest ethnic food restaurant with a few good friends and disagreeing about the controversial exhibit at the art museum.” Or, “Sunday mornings you’ll find me at the SPCA walking dogs and then off to my favorite breakfast joint for their fresh brewed coffee and chile relleno.
I like mine extra spicy.” (Okay, doesn’t hurt to flirt a little.) 5) You sound like a Debbie Downer.
After all, you’ve probably accomplished a lot in your life without a man and are prepared to continue doing so.
Be careful not to sound like there is no room in your life for a relationship.
It’s too generic, common and, frankly says nothing about you that’s interesting.
Instead, be more specific and paint a picture for him.
” Spend your initial time letting him know how you relax and enjoy yourself and how being with you will add positively to both of your lives.
You can roll out the “heavy” information as you get to know each other.
Some statistics show that for every man over 50, there are up to 5 women; over 60, ten women, and so on. The days of sitting back and waiting for anything incoming are over.
If you want to be noticed and rise to the top, it pays to create the best possible profile and keep it polished and shiny.
And once you know how it is inadvertently turning off the men who are looking for a positive, fun connection, it’s really not that difficult.