Back then, it wasn’t very safe for transsexual women to frequent straight clubs and most congregated together at such spots each weekend.Today - with transgenderism having achieved much broader acceptance, very few full-time transsexual women socialize at trans-bars except to occasionally stop-in and visit old friends.
I met two guys who found their ideal TS wife by looking overseas.
This option offers big pluses and some equally large drawbacks. Stealth occurs almost instantaneously when we get outside our own culture. Brazilians can quickly identity a transgender woman in their own country - but if she moves here?
A few girlfriends of mine that work as paid escorts ended up eventually falling in love and dating a former client. Some promise they’ll stop but fear losing their client list and the financial independence it represents. You’re prepared to take advantage of the opportunity if chance sends her your way.
Most try to keep John’s at arm’s length but if they just had a break-up and they like the guy - some end up dating. You also usually had to have invested a good bit of time and money into “paid services”. One couple I know met this way: at a straight bar - “out of the blue” encounter. would also apply to finding an ideal candidate on-line who happens to be “single and looking” when you reach out.
Lots of TS women perform at DRAG acts as a way to make extra money.
However, most performers are gay guys who create a feminine illusion for stage.- lots of straight guys end up attracted to their character.
After narrowing their selection and deciding on their ideal match - they now help financially support these gals and do occasional vacations together. You’ll probably find exactly what you're looking for: just reality in a capitalistic society. Most are part-time cross dressers - but you’ll gain a far better understanding of the life and death of the transgender community.
If you return year after year - you tend to develop associations and friendships that might blossom into something more.
Supporting a gal through her transition requires patience, love and a willingness to see her as a beautiful woman regardless how she looks now.
It helps - if you really Years ago, the absolute best way to find and connect with a lovely transsexual woman was by frequenting trans-friendly nightclubs.
Such trans-women are almost always fully-functional since they’re not on hormones and they’re much more willing to explore a NSA - “No Strings Attached” connection with guys they like.